I've just arrived in San Jose for the mid-year get together of the participants and mentors from the Eureka Institute for emerging library leaders in California. For this and other reasons, the topic of leadership has been on my mind more than usual and I've had more than a few reasons to think about my mentor, Karl Stewart. Karl was the Managing Director of Comalco Smelting, and the person responsible for the 9 life-changing years Don and I spent in Australia.
Karl has an amazing grasp of what it means to earn the right to be a leader and how one's behavior influences others. Among the many things he taught me was to distinguish between what he called role-vested authority and earned authority. In other words, leadership you earn is much more valuable than leadership you inherit by virtue of your organizational position.
He also taught me about the responsibility the leader has to the team as a whole, and what the impact on the team is when counter-productive behaviors are tolerated. He did this by example, but also via a simple phrase that has had a profound influence on both my work and personal lives, and one that has been particularly on my mind lately.
That phrase is "What I accept, I approve".
It is powerful leadership tool in many ways, not the least of which is it forces you to think about what is really important....what you simply can't accept in terms of your own situation and the behavior of others, and what it is ok to let slide. And then, having decided what you cannot accept, it makes you responsible for doing what is necessary to address the situation.
It's also a powerful tool for taking responsibility for what happens in your personal life, and like most things that seem simple on the surface it is actually really hard to put into practice.
I am sharing it here in the hope that others will find it as useful a reminder of the responsibility that goes with leadership, and with life, as I have.
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